What ultimately unites all these heroes is, yes, their unquestionable bravery, but also what motivates that bravery: friends, family, second breakfast, domestic bliss. This is what makes the Reluctant Hero such a powerful device. They are motivated by the same things that motivate us and are rightly reluctant, apprehensive, and even downright terrified of the things that would make us reluctant, apprehensive, and downright terrified.
We admire the incredible qualities of our favorite heroes not because they are so different from us, but because they could be us.
What is so powerful about the Reluctant Hero trope is that it gives our characters, and by extension ourselves, a remarkable amount of grace. By allowing our heroes the opportunity to refuse the call (even if we know they will ultimately say yes), we build space in our stories for fear and doubt and establish that experiencing these feelings doesn’t make you any less heroic.
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Campbell, Joseph, The Hero With A Thousand Faces, Princeton University Press, 1949.