As a young woman, Frances married the American, Swan Burnett who was an aspiring doctor. Together they had two sons, Lionel and Vivian. While Swan was in medical school, it was Frances’ writing that supported the family, and even after he opened his practice her income far exceeded his. Touring new releases of her books kept Frances busy, and while she adored her sons, she often spent months apart from them while she traveled.
It was while she was again in Paris that she heard from Swan that their son Lionel was gravely ill. She rushed home, taking her son to all the important doctors and spas she could find, but he died of tuberculosis in Paris in 1890, at the age of sixteen. Frances never forgave herself, and much of the rest of her life was a memorial to him.
In many ways, The Secret Garden’s publication in 1911 is Frances’ answer to the questions she had been asking herself since her son's death. What does it mean to be sick? What does it mean to be well? How can we recover from grief? How can we forgive ourselves for our failures? We can see echoes of Frances’ love and loss in both Mary and Colin, but perhaps most potently in Colin’s father Mr. Craven, a man who is so overcome with grief over the loss of his wife that he abandons his son. Thankfully, Mr. Craven finds forgiveness and redemption in the end, giving us hope that Frances Found that for herself too.